What makes a successful team?

The focus of this blog is to bring insight to a few issues. One, success is measured by the person holding the measuring stick! Two, why are we comparing ourselves to each other? Thirdly. why do we care so much about what the other group or team is doing? Why not spend that energy and focus on our own efforts?! Stop worrying about if this team or that team is getting into the big name places and you are not. The big name places cost money to get into and the REAL difficult locations are the residential investigation.

 These are the investigations that truly matter anyway. I started this group to answer many questions that I myself had. How does this happen? What are these events? Can they be removed? What is it? and Can they be made to stop?

In the pursuit of these answers I have only found more questions. Is there a point where death is suspended from judgement? How can the spirit realm exist if Gods judgement is absolute and instantaneous? What are these entities if they are NOT angels or demons?

As you delve into paranormal investigations you will realize that, not everything is going to have an answer! There are things you can not explain, you must experience to believe!! There will always be skeptics.... ALWAYS!! So stop worrying about them and the nay-sayers. Stop worrying about the critics and their negative comments. Stay strong and head-fast. Stay the course. You are the measure of your success. If getting 5 residential investigations is your goal and you get 7, you my friend are a success!!

Start yourself out with reasonable and yet modest goals.. sounds very simple and mundane, yet it works!! With each year attempt to go one step further, one step higher, and one step closer to your end game, But be mindful, this field is either feast or famine!! Be ready to accept the set backs and the failures, We only learn from our experiences and our failures!

So what is a successful team? Its simple.. its the team that sticks together, the team that perseveres, the team that accomplishes its mission each and every night they investigate. The team that stay TRUE to its self and its clients. THAT is success to me. I feel that my team is successful due to my members. They are the ones who put in the hours along side me, they sacrifice their time and their efforts just as much as I do and that is where the real pay off comes from, everyone driving to the same goal. Being there and being ready to pick up the slack where one falls off and knowing they do the same for you!  Team work is success!!

Are you a ghost hunter or paranormal investigator?

I have been listening to and reading several issues dealing with the pursuit of ghosts. One being what is the proper title. Ghost Hunter or Paranormal Investigator.

My theory is BOTH! If you are looking for or seeking the existence of ghosts, you're a ghost hunter AND a paranormal investigator. BUT, if your sole purpose is just UFO's or cryptids or whatever, you are just a paranormal investigator.

There are those in the field that are offended by being called a "Ghost Hunter" they say I am MUCH more than that. Well, that is the core task isn't it??

Well, for me, I use both terminologies. Its in our group name and when asked, I say I am a paranormal investigator. Reason being is that ghosts are a paranormal anomaly. To me its a moot point to debate over what someone refers to themselves as or to belittle those who decide to use one term or the other.

The field is what is important. The research is important. But most importantly, the explanation and the reassurance to the client is the most important aspect of the venture. We are a collective owe it to those we help to give 110% of our effort to helping them become comfortable again in the home. After all, they are the reason we do this is, isn't it??

Is impersonation the highest form of flattery?

Ok, so I have been in the middle of a few of these debates and it ALWAYS gets ugly!! One team claiming to be the "first" to do this or say that.. To clear the air.. I THINK the FIRST was Jason Hawes and Grant Wilson to actually bring paranormal investigations to main stream popularity. I THINK. So with that being said, everyone else ( me included ) can not claim to be the "first" to do anything in the field. Oh sure we have our own phrases, but in the long run, we all owe origins to someone else.

From my knowledge, "Mysticism" is the origins of paranormal investigations and that began around 1620 during the Age of Enlightenment. You see paranormal investigations has been around for quiet some time now under one name or another. So all this "you are copying me" stuff is just drama!!

I always give credit where credit is due and I always tell folks if I got the idea from someone else or if I am just re-coining  the phrase. Example. T.A.P.S  calls an area of high electro-magnetic frequency that is focused on a specific location a "Fear Cage". I have always thought that a more simpler term has always been more appropriate to explain to the client. I call it "EMF Poisoning" In the simple term you understand that EMFs have done something bad to you. Even if you don't know what an EMF is or what it does, you know its bad.

So when teams "compete" and I hate to use the term but it fits, against each other for the right to say "I was first".. it does nothing but separate and already fragile alliance that we have with each other. I believe in TRUE unity and true partnership. I have on occasion sought out other teams and asked if they wanted to investigate one of my cases. Now, it hasn't always happened, but I try to reach out to others and extend the olive branch of unity. I mean, I cant force a client to allow another team investigate when they have already entrusted me, but I try!!! I have tried a few times.

I just hate the fact that so many teams are in COMPETETION with each other. Yes, we all want to protect our sandbox. For me, I am weary of trusting others with my teams reputation. We have worked hard to get where we are and to keep the drama and speculation away from our name. Its very hard to shake old opinions. Some folks are KNOWN to be controlling or possessive of investigations. Even to the point where they may feel so threatened by another successful group, that they fabricate stories or falsehoods about that group to steal their shine!

If you have ever been a victim of this, TRUST ME when I say this, it will be ok! Just remain true to who you are and your character. Others will see by your actions that the stories were nothing more than a lie! Then you will shine brighter and stronger than your accuser! Be who you are, and be true to your cause! My group is not out for thrills or glory or notoriety. We are out there seriously trying to help others and document the actual existence of the paranormal claims. To further the field of research and hopefully, provide one or two bricks in the road to creating an actual field of scientific study into paranormal events.

So, stop worrying about who said what term first or who made up what phrase first. Hell, I made up a paranormal glossary years ago and now someone else took the idea and made it their own. I'm not mad, hateful or have any resentment toward them. I should have published it first! LOL
We need to work together, truly work together as one team to push this field into an area that is more than social entertainment and more toward a field of scientific study.

In closing, to all of you out there struggling as a team.. keep pushing forward!! Its not over yet and if their is internal conflict, START OVER or START NEW!! There is too much to do than to fight amongst ourselves. To the teams that hate each other, why?? You were friends once, cant you be friends again? At least squash the issue and stop bashing each other, it doesn't look good on either side. For those who are the glory hound or always playing "victim" for support. GROW UP!! eventually everyone will see you for who you are and when it happens, it will be like a landslide has fallen upon you and you will be shunned by the very community you called home. Its not too late to change and actually do the good things you have claimed you are aspiring to do.

I believe in unity or partnership in this field. I believe it so much that I try to assist others as much as I can. I think my willingness to help or eagerness to believe in others is both my strength and weakness. I sometimes trust too easily and it bites me in the butt from time to time. Stop worrying about what other teams do or say, especially about you if you have done nothing but grind and hustle to get your team to a level that inspires others. Be proud of your accomplishments, its not bragging or showboating if you're proud  of your accomplishments. But be humble as well, cause some may take it as arrogance and vanity. To those who feel inferior: stop it... we all started from ground zero!! We all have a beginning! Just stay the course and stay true to your heart. Everything else will work itself out.

I seriously believe that this community is unlike any other, and that we will support each other and help each other succeed. Be good to one another cause your actions speak louder than words and when you trash talk someone or purposely make a team look bad, it comes back to you.

Until my next rant!! Stay true, stay dedicated and most of all stay you!!

You are ruining the reputation of REAL paranormal investigators!!

A few days ago I seen a video post from a person who says they are a paranormal investigator and she was saying how she is "rebuilding" her team and asking folks to tell her of places to hunt. Seems legit so far , right? Well, most of us are constantly revamping our team and methodology to make our group better anyway. We are also self publicizing ourselves to get more awareness and publicity, which in turn hopefully garners more investigations. Ok, so pretty normal thus far. 

But, when you get on social media and post a video or yourself asking for tips or explaining why your team has no equipment or no hunts in the last 16 months... make sure your not drunk or high!! 
You don't think EVERYONE can tell your intoxicated?? Your slurred speech, your glazed eyes, and the fact you loose track of your train of thought mid-sentence is all the red flags needed.

You have no team.. its you and your child.... you have NO GEAR!! You have no TEAM. Its you and your son! You just have a Facebook page, that's it!! You portray yourself as a paranormal investigator or ghost hunter, which ever you prefer, but you are damaging the legitimate teams out there by posting videos of yourself drunk or high!! This is why no one comes to you for help. This is why you have NO MEMBERS. You tried to scam people out of money in order to pay for YOUR tickets to a tour, NOT a hunt! 

Its people like you that ruin this field for everyone who has a legitimate team or group. For those of us who are working on their group 24/7, we disown you!! You are NOT a part of our family. Is that harsh? Yes, just a bit but, you cant allow cancer to stay in you body if you want to stay healthy. 

As a member of a much larger association of paranormal teams, I am the FIRST to promote para-unity! But I will not sit back silently and allow this type of ignorance to be portrayed upon this community. This type of behavior is TOXIC to our community and the growth of this field. You have a drinking or drug problem. GO GET HELP!!! Get sober then reenter the arena of paranormal investigations. 

You are ruining the reputation of REAL INVESTIGATORS.. and you are ruining the credibility of real teams. Stop, please just stop. Get help, beat this addiction and come back to the paranormal family and help us establish a credible field of research. 

Cause if you continue on this path, all you are doing is destroying everything you hoped to accomplish.

Haunted Dolls

The other day I was contacted by a woman on a Facebook group that was oriented toward the paranormal. She made a post about these two dolls that she bought and was looking to give them away. She stated that "weird things" had been occurring in the home since she brought them back. So... I asked .. "How much do you want for them" She replied they are FREE!! So of course I said ' I'll take them" 

2 weeks later they arrived in the mail and last night was the first night they stated here in our home. We placed them on an old steamer trunk in the living room. Getting home late from work that night, I wanted to watch some tv and relax a bit before going to bed. So I cleaned up, and began to watch one of my favorite shows. I began to get sleepy and thought... " Hey!! Ill just sleep here and see what happens!!"

Well after a few moments of hearing the cats run around and a few faux heart attacks,,,, I realized nothing was going to happen. So I fell asleep, lightly I might add, but never the less, I think my apprehension of the dolls was more than the actual activity. But hey, it was the first night!! 

They look rather peaceful and content on the trunk and we do have several pets. None of the dogs or cats have had an irregular reaction to them. But again, its the first 24 hours in the home. So we shall see what occurs or doesn't occur. 

Where does paranormal investigations stop and occult practices begin?

I am sitting here watching another paranormal show on the Travel channel. This couple is recounting their survival of their paranormal experience. There was a lot going on according to the couple so they contacted a "paranormal investigator".

The first thing that got my attention was.. he was using a phone application to assist him in "talking to the dead". RED FLAG #1. Its a phone app, its made for entertainment, NOT investigative practices. These apps work by using your phones internal GPS, then it researches the internet for commonalities. Then the artificial intelligence program begins to generate words or phrases that would be recognizable to the location.

This is a computer program designed to give words or phrases related to the location, NOT from a spirit. So this man then tells them he captured an EVP that he thought was telling him that the spirit could and can use the female owners energy.

Well after a while the activity got more frequent and more aggressive to the couple. Even to the point of reportedly being possessed and talking in a strange voice. They contacted the "paranormal investigator" again.

He came into the home and "searched" for "spirit portals". According to the man, these were doors or windows that spirits could use to enter and leave our world and return to its world. I started to doubt that the man was an investigator but more of an occultist. I was RIGHT!. So he begins to address the "spirit portals" and said there were 18 portals in the home and that since the apartment was vacant for so long the spirits energy had claimed the apartment and " that wasn't good".

So he goes on to describe how he "closed" the portals. He said he took some torn fabric with light shining through it and then ( Well I am not condoning this behavior so I am not going to give the exact description)  completed the task in order to bind the spirit in the other world/realm.

This is the performance of occult practices. Once you start to perform seances, cleansings, summonings, anything other than the gathering of evidence, you have crossed the line. You are no longer an investigator. You have become a practitioner of these "arts".  You have effectively stepped through the "portal" of the realms. This in not ghost hunting or paranormal investigations. This is  whatever you wish to call it, witchcraft, magic, or occultism. You have taken the role of "medium" or a guide between the realms. You are shutting the doors. You are the focal point of this spirit now and the focus of its anger or.... hatred.

Once you become active in the occult practices, you stop being an objective investigator. You are looking for proof. Not beliefs. As an investigator you are looking for photographic evidence of spirits or ghosts. You are trying to capture it on audio, video and in pictures.

These "occult paranormal investigators" are dangerous*. I do not and will not conduct an investigation like this or similar to this. I have allowed individuals who claim to have abilities accompany us to investigations and allowed them to attempt to communicate with the spirits. But this is when the investigation is OVER.

I personally do not like when TV portrays this as paranormal investigations. This is 1930's occultism. Plain and simple.


******* This is my own personal opinion based on life experiences. I in no shape or form am calling these people liars, fakes or frauds. I am just saying that based upon my own outlook on what a paranormal investigator is and should be, this is not paranormal investigations, but occult practices*********

Am I wrong or am I right?

Here I am, torn between being supportive of other paranormal teams and wanting to separate myself from teams that I feel are not authentic and sincere. I watch and follow a lot of paranormal teams on social media. Some are down to Earth, rational folks who are genuinely looking for answers. While there are those out there riding the current wave of popularity in paranormal investigations and looking to create a name for themselves. Even if that name and reputation is bad.

So how do I promote unity in the paranormal field, when there are teams that do not portray the traits that are desirable? Please, do not get this wrong. I feel everyone should follow their dreams, even if that means you want to be the next television personality out there chasing and over reacting to noises in the dark.

But what about those tried and true teams and individuals that are busting their butts doing research and studying the field looking for answers. How do you give credence to one group but not the other? What standards do you apply? The brand name of their gear? The amount of gear they have or the types of gear they have?

Neither, it has nothing to do with gear, its about integrity and heart. Are they in this for the right reasons? Do they conduct themselves with honesty and present their findings honestly. Do they fabricate or exaggerate their findings? If they do... this is not a group to emulate or to duplicate. This is the dilemma which we fall into with unity in the field of paranormal research.

If you "out" a group for being fake or overly dramatic, then you become a "hater". if you allow these groups into your circle you dilute your resolve and your reputation. Thus, enabling them to continue to ruin the integrity of paranormal investigations as a whole. Do you become an isolationist in behavior? Do you refuse to associate with other groups and just be "Facebook friends"?

These are the questions many investigative founders and team members are faced with today. the hashtag #Paraunity is used to inspire teams to work together and to help bring the field together. But some use it as a mockery and hide behind its meaning to further their fraud.

I guess for me, I will stand by teams that I deem fit for association and I will still say #Paraunity when commenting on certain posts. If we strengthen our resolve and strengthen our position on and against some of the "frauds" or "drama queens" We will strengthen the respect that those outside our community has for us. It will give credence to our purpose and our cause. I guess it should read #Paraintegrity.

But as I asked before, Am I wrong for feeling this way,  or am I right??